Friendship can be a funny thing sometimes. We all have different expectations in life and some people that come into our lives misinterpret kindness for being a sucker and take advantage of it.
The same can happen in a larger community of people, for example (cause I’m part of it) the gay community. Acquaintences are made and smiles are shown but over time this cordial demeanor gives way to a more ‘catty’ persona. Everyone gossips, I think it’s something we do but some people take it to a viscious new level creating false rumours detrimental to that persons very existence in the ‘community’.
We are all here to live in peace, no one should want ill will upon others, and if you hate someone that is for you to decide not to spread amongst others.